Online Dating Safety Tips
Caution Signs
Lack of definitive answers: if you ask how old someone is, for example, and they don’t respond, surely something is wrong somewhere or they might have something to hide.
Poor follow-up and reliability: if a prospective date doesn’t respond to an email when they say they will or fails to call you back within a reasonable timeframe.
Picture exchange avoidance: if someone refuses to exchange photos, there’s a good chance they have something to hide or they are not wahat they claim to be.
Over-exuberance: if your prospect is saying “I love you” right away or wants to meet immediately, proceed with caution or just walk away.
What I would suggest on Safe Online Dating
- Meet the person in a neutral, public place, like a café or restaurant. In another word, meet up in an active place with many people which involves not leaving you and that person all alone.
- Don't give out personal information (home address for instance) until you know you want to go on a date with a prospect. Excitement usually overrule this advice. (hmm...have I told you that?)
- When email exchanges advance to phone conversations, pay attention to the person’s tone of voice and listening skills. Especially after the third and forth call, as thsi is where they usually be relax and be totally true-self.
- Make sure the person you might meet has answered all your questions. If pressured to move forward, don't rush into anything. Take your time and let your judgement do the same. Don't worry, its for the best result.
- If you get a sense that something isn't quite right, it most likely isn't. Ask questions and see if they can erase your initial worry. I do that often, I've even beat around the bush to see whether the person cracks. That doesn't sound evil, right?
Now i think your are at a comfortable level and Safe, let do the nex step: Creating an AD
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